Are you comfortable saying that to your wife? How do you expect she’d react?
Here’s an easy way to answer this question: say to your wife “I fucked a friend, yesterday, but, while I was doing it, I was thinking about you. Are you cool with that?”
“Cheating” is breaking the rules of a specific relationship. I know couples who say those sorts of things to each other all the time. For them, it’s not cheating. For others, it is.
Really, all that matters here is your relationship. Let’s say we all told you “It’s not cheating,” and then your wife finds out what happens and freaks out. What
“No, honey: It’s okay. See, I asked on the Internet, and a bunch of strangers assured me it’s not cheating!”
Would your wife reply to that by saying “Really? Oh, my mistake then. I’m so sorry I made a fuss. Carry on”?
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